Sometimes it’s great when your friends have insight into you, seeing things before you can notice them. Sometimes it’s not so great.
Need examples? Well, I happen to have a couple are related to old blog entries! Remember when I said I like the musician Jonathan Coulton? After posting, I realized that Cory had actually played a song of his for me months before. You were right, Cory. That’s great!
You may have missed it, but in the comments Nicole told me that she thinks of me every time she watches the Big Bang Theory. When I admitted to never having seen it, she said “I cannot believe you haven’t seen it. I’m literally in shock right now. Seriously, you work with these people. It’s like me at the bank with all those folks on the office. You work with them. Watch the show.”
So I gave The Big Bang Theory a try. It is very funny. Especially Sheldon… though he also makes me a little self-conscious. I used to be obsessive-compulsive, and still feel more comfortable when I can give in to some of those tendencies. I wrote out a few examples, but then thought better of it. You can ask me in person if your curious and need a laugh – I’m about to confess enough for one post.
I like the show (I’m about 2/3rds into season 2), but I couldn’t help but think “My life’s not REALLY like that. Maybe when I had all those classes with computer engineers in college. But not so much anymore.” Those words rang back in my head this week. I had to go across campus with my coworker. We talked on the way.
him: It’s too close to lunch time. Traffic will be terrible. That’s why I never drive so close to noon.
me: (walking to the far end of the parking lot) Well, at least you’ll get a better parking spot when we get back.
him: I got a fairly good one this morning, but it could be better. They are only good if they are shaded.
me: Oh. Well, maybe that one will still be empty when we get back (pointing to far corner under a tree).
him: I used to think that, too, but that’s actually the second best spot. Because of the trajectory of the sun in the afternoon and the lack of low branches, the one next to it is more shaded – though only for afternoon parking. Also surprisingly, that spot over there is the third-best spot. For such a small tree, it gives an inordinate amount of shade.
me: Yeah, what type of tree is that? Once I took a flower from it to Dr. Frye, but he couldn’t identify it.
him: I don’t know – Dr. Frye couldn’t tell? Hmm.
me: I like it because it’s about the size and shape of a crepe myrtle, but it looks so much better.
him: Yeah, my in-laws have a whole bunch of crepe myrtles – I wish they’d get rid of them. But they also have some great trees – five different variety of oak, a pecan, and two magnolias.
me: Oh, I wish we had more magnolias around here, they have such beautiful flowers.
him: They are incredible flowers. One of the first to exist. Fossils have been found with magnolia flowers that date back to the Cretaceous period.
me: I hadn’t realized that. Interesting.
him: (doubting me) Well, you only have to look at them to realize they must be early on in the evolutionary chain. The flowers still look like leaves.
And that’s when I realized that I DO “work with these people.” I hadn’t even made the connection. You were right, Nicole. That’s not so great (for me).
Here’s to hoping I’m at least a Leonard.